Once a vakabon always a vakabon

I do NOT believe in that saying at all


HOWEVER...I had to come on CO to share this with you guys. You recall how I said I felll in love with this married guy? Well, when he and I had first started to talk, I NEVER knew he was married. Se le m finn pran, mwen di, ah mwen la, mwen la net right? OK, so I ran with my heart. I allowed it to guide me. I even made myself believe all he was saying as in for me to wait for him to leave her. He was waiting for his son to finish school, which was a couple of years away or so. I was with him for about two years nan tann tann tann. So one day I WOKE up and said to him:' I will wait but I will keep dating as well paske w pa konnen kisa bon dye kite pou mwen deyo a right?". Well he sure did not like that one at all, still he stayed with me, all the while as he said, he kept on praying for me to not find anyone so I could be with him forever on one hand and on another crying ak de ran dlo nan je for me to find someone who will treat me right. ANYWAYS, I noticed a few things as well so I moved on. BUT BUT BUT, in my little idiot heart, I loved that man wi...and as he does me he said. Bon mwen te vinn sispek after we stopped sexing that he may have found a new me, but sispek pa konfime pa vre?

WELL THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED, last night I go to one of those Yahoo, windows, FB thing right, lol, jouda mwen pap di nou which lol, so I logged on epi what do I see? THE MAN IS FLIRTING WITH SOME WOMAN, telling her how he will want to please her. I read the whole darn history of them talking pou jan mwen we neg sa ap flirt, fe chyen nan pye fanm lan!!! MY HEART SUNK. MY HEART SUNK because I was so shocked and so hurt. I was really hoping that he had stopped his ways paske guess what no matter how bad li di mariaj lan te ye, the kid is done with school and misye is still in his lakay...

I AM A NAIVE IDIOT, aren't I? DAMN IT!!! THIS REALLY HIT ME HARD...


I had to share sorry. So ladies yes yes yes please listen, listen to when they tell you that if he has not left, he NEVER will. No matter how wonderful you believe you are or he tells you you are, YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE. HE WILL FOKK ANY POUSSY HE GETS ALONG AWAY. YOU ARE JUST A NEW PUSSY. Se pa paske l marye an suddenly he is any different from any other guy and to him you really truly are NOT that special...DAMN!!!